Ibadan-born businessman and publisher of The Street Journal Magazine, Mogaji Wole Arisekola has decried a toxic tide of entitlement and black tax that are sweeping through society, eroding empathy and personal responsibility which according to him are contributory factors to sudden deaths, especially among men who are “primary providers”.
The National Chairman of the Association of Online Media Practitioners in Nigeria (AMPCON) also added that the ugly trend of putting pressures on others for pecuniary gains is seriously building up a lot of stress and health issues among many hardworking men who tried to satisfy every demands thrown at them by family members, friends, and the society at large.
He cautioned and that if the menace was not checked more men as a result of huge financial burden and frivolous demands could have their lives cut short suddenly.
The constant pressure to earn and provide, coupled with the feeling of being undervalued, can have severe implications. Stress is a known factor contributing to various health problems, including heart disease, which can result in sudden death.
In a social media post on Wednesday, February 5, 2025, Mogaji said:
“Good morning my Brothers.
“The secret behind sudden death in men is a topic of significant concern. While the love of money is not inherently bad, placing it above all other aspects of life can lead to detrimental consequences. Many men work tirelessly day and night, only to surprisingly hand over their earnings to others. It’s perplexing why some individuals believe that receiving the fruits of another’s labor is their entitlement.
“This mindset can lead to stress and health issues among men. The constant pressure to earn and provide, coupled with the feeling of being undervalued, can have severe implications. Stress is a known factor contributing to various health problems, including heart disease, which can result in sudden death.
“Moreover, societal expectations often place undue burdens on men to be the primary providers. This expectation can lead to overexertion and neglect of personal health. When men feel compelled to prioritize financial gain over their well-being, it can have fatal consequences.
“It’s essential to recognize that while ambition and hard work are commendable, they should not come at the expense of one’s health. Balancing work and personal life is crucial. Men should be encouraged to take care of their physical and mental health, seek regular medical check-ups, and not succumb to the societal pressures of being the sole provider.
“Furthermore, open communication within families about financial responsibilities can alleviate some of the burdens. Sharing financial duties and understanding each other’s roles can lead to a more harmonious and healthy life.
“In conclusion, while the pursuit of financial stability is important, it should not overshadow the importance of health and well-being. Recognizing the signs of stress and taking proactive steps to manage it can prevent tragic outcomes. It’s vital to foster a culture where men feel supported and valued beyond their financial contributions.
“Mogaji Wole Arisekola writes from Ibadan.”
